Shenanigans of I DO I DID I'M DONE!

 Sooooooooooooooooooooo I've always wanted to plan a fun party for....MYSELF of course since I am self centered and self involved.

I think a lot of that has to do with planning something and getting to decide all of the festivities.  Yeah, I really need a child to celebrate. Ha.

Since I wasn't able to celebrate my milestone bday on the beach like I had planned...while on my extended visit in the ATL last year I talked to my home girl about wanting a party. I didn't want to do a Birthday party and we were in the middle of a pandemic but I wanted to celebrate new beginnings!

So, what did I do. Planned and hosted a Divorce Party. I even made an invitation. Tried to make it classy cause I knew we were gonna be raunchy! 

                                                                    From Mrs. to Miss.

I rented a suite and the planning went from there! It was about 7 women. It was last August in KC at the Country Club Plaza. I made a guest list and started working on shirt designs. 

YES! We had shirts! All with crazy sayings! 

B's Divorce Squad

-I offered to key his car

-She asked God and He gave the green light

-He didn't deserve you

-I never liked his ass

-I thought he was worth something

-Dismissed

-Divorced AF

-Boy Bye

Everything was purple themed of course, I ordered cookies with sayings, I love sayings! Ha.

I do, I did, I'm done; Happily Divorced, Divorced AF....

We went to the winery, had dinner, and more snacks and drinks in the room. I tried to turn on some music to keep us hype. Of course we ALL didn't last long with drinking and eating. 

About 4 of us stayed and went out to a few local bars and caused more mischief in our themed shirts! The attention received that night. YES! 

The weekend was EPIC! I think I slept all of Sunday to recoup.

Now for 2019, and living a LIFE I LOVE.

How I ended my last real post.

I guess it goes without saying how fucked up my life became during 2019. Definitely was NOT a life I love. 

2020 became the new year of me, new year of healing, growth, self reflection, self care, and self love. I was gonna travel EVERYWHERE and do some fuckery. 

You know I like to get down.

Then the pandemic. So again, put on hold. Fuckery occurred because I would not be me if not. 

The saying goes, if you want God to laugh, tell Him your plans. 

I believe God got the last laugh. 

So, it's 2021 and I am back to the drawing board.

End of April 2021 I celebrated one year of me and one year of self love. 

Still single, started dating in a positive way. Changing old habits which just haven't worked. Allowing things to flourish organically. I'm enjoying it and I'm laughing and not hiding who I am.

I've been watching reality love TV shows. Haahaha

Gave me some confidence and good vibes to take a risk on love. We shall see where life takes this.

After 15 months of working from home and remotely cause I continued to see the US during the pandemic I was forced to return to the office. 

I am still adjusting. Hating it day by day.

I celebrated Chapter 36 (25 Again!) with a group of ladies I love and my Poppa💓

A night to remember for facts. 

I will come back soon. I want to talk about this Divorce Party I had last year. 😂

Love, peace, and Me. In overdrive.