More Late Updates

So, I'm back with more updates on life. Shit. Need to read old post to see what I have shared so far....back soon. 

Ok, so back to new career. I become officially FT with Calphalon on August 27th as I was promoted to ASSISTANT MANAGER!! Go Bran!!

I can finally put that 30K degree to use (sorta) and no longer answering calls from assholes! So I left Farmers April as previously stated, and at that time I was just a Senior Sales Associate at Calphalon. My manager had plans for me since hiring me in Oct 2011. So there I was promoted twice in 6 month time....lovely! God is able and I am favored!

I really shouldn't complain so much....think it keeps me humble. This has been an experience for me, leading and coaching others. Being boss. Who would have thought :O) Glad a chance was taken on me! I am grateful!!

Life in Texas still has its ups and downs, I'm broke and would like to move into a less expensive place, but mom says I need to stay so I will be content....least have a safe, nice place to lay my head without fear of safety. (Allows her to rest at night I'm sure.)

I am still SINGLE (that ugly word, ha), but it works for me. I love my space, my time, and not being bothered. I have bumped into men over time since my extent here. Some more worthy than others, none enough to keep around. I've been social with people from Midwest, so crazy I know. Trying to get everyone out of KS! Oh, and DeQuincy from Topeka lives here. Moved like right before me. When Krystal visited during my B'Day she put some ideas in my head. Things I had not strongly considered, but he knows how to keep his distance and I'm not trying to get people off track. He asked last time we hung if I had met anyone, told him how I don't care to since Texas boys have annoyed me immensely  I would like to get to know him though, he is different, sorta weird. I think my type, HAHAHAHA.

Think I am a coupled person worst nightmare....I shouldn't say that, but hey. So on to Woody. Met him June, he is older and likes catering to my drinking habit. Met him at a bar in which his attire kept him on the outside. He insisted on buying drinks anyway, so he became the guy to call. Then found out he was sweet on me, oh thanks. I like to normally blame Nina for this kinda behavior. He lasted til Sept, not bad for an Texan. He has a live-in (woman) but he is not committed. Sad. He does run when she calls though but he was hanging tough with us for a bit. LOSERS, something I didn't need but we loved the free drinks. 

Not sure I should even discuss Wesley ahhhhhhhhhhhh. He had a knight status until time allowed for true colors to show. Older as well. Younger than Woody though. LOL
Met him, well seen him right after I moved to town. Storyline: I was having HH with a friend at Pappasito's and we were just chilling, doing women. Talking, drinking, laughing. Guy walks by, stops and speaks but continues. Nothing. Next week, my friend is out and this guy sees her. Approaches her and ask about me (the friend). (Sign there, lol) Anyway. She is so excited and tells me about it. Then has me show up to this bar...she is leaving but someone wants to meet me. I go thinking she will be there. I decided to go in and say hello, then I would leave. Arrived, met him officially and had a drink figured ok, give a shot. He seemed cool so we exchanged numbers and continued talking. This is like January, we hung for a bit. 

Then I took a 2 month break because he annoyed me. Then I seen him again randomly one night downtown, didn't even know he went downtown....and got hooked once more. Sad! He was 32-33, with a 4yr old daughter. I was hooked on the fact he was a college grad and in school getting Masters. Had a stable job, but lived at home. Loser, ok. Claims he was saving for house, bet he was not giving parents rent or helped with bills. Anyway his player ways caught up with him and I feared he had some lady pregnant so I ended it. Like a DAMN year later. Shit he needs his own post. He seen that same friend of mine (he refs on side, she had boys) and asked about me. How I was doing and yada yada, wanted me to call him. Like I had his number still, nigga please! Get a life! So, I debated it a slight moment. Had a memory recall of Nina and her name for him.... Raggedy. Told her about it, laughed it off and didn't consider it again strongly. I may be bored, but not desperate or that crazy. When I had a relapse last year it was the 2nd chance for him. On to anything else......

Oh. let's discuss white boy Chris briefly. We worked together at Hell. He sat diagonal from me in sight view since I was moved to "floor." Trying to learn my job and not be a bother I didn't talk to him for months or ask questions. Then time went on, and he knew a lot so I asked questions often. He would always help me on my calls, found answers, come to my desk and let me find answers. Nice co-worker. Then my Amy moved near my desk and she and I kept up a good racket. He joined us often hence becoming closer. We always said he was too comfortable. Ha. So, like each year I plot Thanksgiving Sale (Black Friday shopping) and my mom had asked what I wanted for Christmas, it was between 2 things.... big screen or ipod touch. I was soooooo bored during work and this was pre data phone for me I needed some Internet connection at fingertips plus I listened to my ipod often. I was so tech unknown I didn't even know about the functions of the ipod touch. So I decided on a tv needless to say. I would get a touch later. So a weekend passed and Chris gets to work Monday and is like "look what I found," his old touch that he didn't use. Stated it was lost previously. Uh huh. He's like, "you want it?" I said, "uh , how much?" He's like, "nothing, you can have it!, I don't even use it or like it" I was really like, for real! SUPER EXCITED AND STOKED! Could not wait to share my story with friends of how I got my touch. The guy was sweet and let co-workers say...sweet on me. He grew on me, then I left that place! :0)

Fast Forward

Amy told me he had a GF (I was happy, yet shocked), some chick that worked there. (*shaking head.) Anyway, he was promoted and was having a celebratory HH at one of the fav spots...The Park. I asked Amy to ask if I could come, he was like of course, yes! Excited! Amy ended up not able to attend so I dragged Nina who didn't remember the random white guy that sat near me. But by nights ends she was like, uh he likes you. His GF sitting there entire time! Guys. But, I laugh.

Ok, so that's all folks until I do B'Day Weekend with the BEST post.........

We shall see if I have other things to share, like the Texan I met a few weeks back (He is a bartender.)

Oooooh, I wanna sleep!